I'm in Belgium. I don't work for Horizon. Their 60A ESC is obviously a badly designed part and you have every right to be disgruntled.
I disagree with "If amps (current supplied to a motor )exceeds its capabilities, it fries". A motor will draw a current based on its rpm and the load it's working against. The ESC does not push current into it, the motor draws it from the ESC. If the ESC has high enough current capacity that it does not become a bottleneck though, you can fry any motor by running it under too much or too little load (surface, tires, gearing). Basically you want to operate the motor in a zone where it has good efficiency, so that more of the current is converted into motion and less into heat.
I'm not saying you did anything wrong, this isn't your fault, I'm just pointing out that overspeccing the ESC for the motor is not in itself something that should bother the motor. I'm also not saying it's normal for your motor to fry. It isn't. But cause and effect can be unclear with issues like this.
None of this is helping you of course. I'd give the truck and all accessories to Chuck and tell him to call you when it's running right.